There is large range of dyes for DNA staining. If you need a fluorescent one, Dapi for example give very good results and it is safe. If you want a non-fluorescent one, you can use a dye targeting for example negatively charged molecules, such as crystal violet.
It is important to be careful concerning the dye choice because many DNA dyes are dangerous !
Cora, if i want to see the pellet when i do a DNA ethanol precipitation, with dye you recommend me to use ? Crystal Violet? any recommended concentration?
Maybe this publication can be interesting for you, here they stained DNA for electrophoresis but i think it could work to stained a pellet (with some adaptations).
in former times, glycogen mussle blue (but it is not colored, but is a quite inert white mass) was used to make precipitates of small amounts of DNA or RNA more easily 'visible' for eyes and at the same time to enhance precipitation. It gets solved when DNA is solved. And it practically doesn't interact with any of the downstream applications (inert). This hint I got from my doctor father.