Transfecting primary macrophages is really, really challenging, and so far the only efficient method is the viral one.
Nevertheless, depending on the application and the molecule to deliver, it is true that some relatively nice results can be achieved by classical transfection reagents.
For siRNA, I would recommend you two alternatives :
SilenceMag, using the Magnetofection technology*** was demonstrated to be highly efficient for siRNA transfection into Macrophages to study endocytic trafficking (Kadiu I., Nanomedicine, 2011: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21417829)
DreamFect, that is a lipid-based reagent usually dedicated to DNA transfection but that was used to deliver siRNA into monocytic suspension cells (Fleischmann KK., Mol Cancer. 2014: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24517546).
Would you like to try these reagents, please do not hesitate to contact me at: [email protected]
good luck with your experiment,
best regards,
Cedric
*** The Magnetofection technology uses a magnetic field to attract and concentrate complexes of magnetic nanoparticles and nucleic acid onto the cell surface as demonstrated by Grześkowiak BF et al, Pharm Res. 2014 Jul 18. (http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/25033763).