Is it in human nature for people to rise up against those who have helped to make them in life via plots on how to eliminate you either diabolically or otherwise or yet still through blackmails saying things you never did or say just to make people see you as a bad person just to have their way? In my own clime insisting on right thing being done has become unattractive even among religious people or born-gains, why do such things happen?
Human personality is very difficult to understand. A lot of factors can result in this. The attitude of many people in the world is now marked by jealousy, greed, ungratefulness and unhealthy competition. Don't be surprised it turns out this way. Keep on doing what is right in the spirit of peace. Never retaliate the evil someone does to you. Look up to the greatest rewarder, God (Allah). Your chasers, haters and ingrates will appreciate you sooner or later.
Perhaps it shows their nature which can not be changed. So never think and just concentrate on your work of teaching and helping others.
The basic nature of a person/student never changes. One should behave accordingly and concentrate on his work.
Okereke and Ajibola who are members of Nigerian academic community I will, here and now, tell you that this ugly experience is very prevalent in our shores and it is worst among easterners in management and social sciences where I belong. It is really unfortunate that they have chosen this evil path that will lead them to nowhere in the professions!
Kumar , but at times it is difficult to continue to help people who do not recognize and appreciate what you do to them, what do you advise further?
My submission is that one should not give up good qualities and right path because of the bad qualities of others.
To be honest in work and to be true in profession will not lower your image. oppositions and lowering image remains the favourite hobby of the negative people. it should be not be considered and ignorance and moving ahead is good.
These are ungrateful people and we have all had ungrateful people in our lives. In my opinion, ungrateful people are the worst people, and we need to ignore them and their activities.
"A grateful dog has more worth than an ungrateful man"
-Arab proverb
I guess these people were already like that before you know them. So don't blame yourself. I am sure others will never forget you....
Because you are on the right road because the good road is full of jealousy, sabotage and a lot of constraints.
I think it's more useful to continu your work and to save your nice humain nature without replay reaction for the other good or bad action from your person in relationship. You save your self without changing or without influences by the doing of the others person. Keep your nice self .
Thank you, Zin, for your very soothing answer. I will try in well doing as always.
Thank you, Abderrahmmane, for your valued advice. I will try to remain on the right road by God's grace.
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