thanks for posting this interesting question. It is not quite clear to me what you mean by separate in this case. I assume that you want to completely liberate the free dimethylaminoethanol (DMAE) from its bitartrate salt, right? In that case please check the closely related discussion cited below in which this question has been answered
If you added a stoichiometric amount of potassium bicarbonate (KHCO3, quite safe) to an aqueous solution of DMAE, you would precipitate almost all of the bitartrate, leaving the DMAE in water.