Sometimes I wish I hadn't made some (few) wrong decisions at a younger age, when life was still ahead of me, including the wrong done to people close to me. I have experienced so much good later. There, what you may not have done right in looking back at youth and adolescence, comes to consciousness again and again. Everything that is not really edited and autobiographically completed comes up again and again - that's how history works, also individually autobiographical. But one must have the peace and strength to live with one's own past nevertheless with a "good conscience". For if I had made other decisions in my youth, completely different people and situations would have come into contact with my life, and whether I would then have experienced so much happiness as it was actually granted to me, that is very questionable. But the thought is comforting.
Sorry for your diabetes. Shifa bi Idni Allah. I have also diabetes type 2 since 2004 and still I am only on diet not any medecine. My advice is to eat mainly vegetables and fish. Walk after meals and drink cinnamon tea before bed. The most important is to lose fat in the stomach. I will suprise you to tell that I am now happy to have diabetes because my diet helped me to be healtier and happier life. I work more and need less sleep.
If we start from reality, I want to find a quiet place to read and write. If we start from imagination, I hope to start the youth age again, to get rid of hundreds of mistakes that I have made.
That the violence in my country ends and that peace prevails in it and extends the hand of reconstruction to restore the destruction caused by the violence to a better level than before.
I wish I had cared a little more about my sons, and sometimes it depends on very specific situations. I would have liked to have drawn their attention to the fact that science is interesting, and that it might also have been worthwhile pursuing this career path, although at the moment it is somewhat more difficult for men to follow this path. They have chosen exactly what was closest to them and made it their profession, without any longer commitment, and in these professions they are actually quite satisfied, but it could have been more and something completely different. But I can live with that. Every person is responsible for his own happiness.
Frankly speaking, I don't wish to do that. Because, I am happy with what I am today and what I have today. If I could change past, I wish it would have changed my present also. Just do your deeds, smile and enjoy life as it comes. Regards
The reality we live in is only in our minds, and therefore we have to recognize our reality and our lives in a way that gives hope and satisfaction through happy ideas or what is known as "positive energy".Try to do this and your life will change forever. You must set a goal within a specified time period to achieve the desired change.
That's true that we experience reality only with our minds (but also with our body). The experienced quality of life is much different for people regarding social groups and classes. And not all people are so much responsible for a bad social, political or economical quality of their life, because there are groups of power and there are groups that are dependent from the facts they come up to them, without having any chance to improve them.
Ouf course, to be free from desease, pain and disabilities that's an understandable desire and all other can also have the idea that all people are free from such hell on earth.
The determination to change the world is individualistic and different people may offer different views about it. To me, however, changing the world requires careful planning and cooperation and is highly dependent upon two different but complementary factors. First, to change the world, we should try to change ourselves. Mahatma Gandhi says, " Be the change that you wish to see in the world". Second, by revolutionizing the educational systems in light of the strifes threatening the world, we will be able to change the world too. After all, education is a powerful weopen for fighting the life absurdities and eliminating the factors contributing to social decadence.
Unfortunately, I can nothing change, but I am quite satisfied with the conditions of my life. I have a job and a family and my health is under control. The more we try to change in our life the more grow the risks that something unpleasant happen.
Thank you very much for pointing that out. If I have understood your remark correctly, then you are so far away from me: We have a life that we can cope with well. Of course, everyone has one or more problems at a time, which can always be the case at a university. Nevertheless, I have the impression that this is not already a reason to want to change something fundamentally.
When you think about your life, there are certainly situations in which not everything went so well, either because of your own complicity or because of factors that could not be changed. There comes the thought: "Wouldn't it have been better if.... Since this cannot be changed, "repression" of personal inadequacies in coping with certain situations is on the one hand a relieving factor with the chance to lead a satisfying life nevertheless. On the other hand, the fact that thoughts of dark periods or situations in one's own biography are repeatedly brought into consciousness from memory is a process of processing, and can therefore be evaluated positively.