Before you proceed with cDNA preparation from RNA, make sure that you quantify the RNA properly. Quality of RNA should be checked aleast by running it on a gel, If possible go for RIN analysis. After cDNA preparation, run a PCR with internal controls and check it in the gel to see if the concentrations are the same.Nomalise the cDNA concentration for all samples and proceed with real time PCR.
Don't use Hosekeeping genes like many researchers do. You should test all your genes you are interested in and then use the 2 or 3 genes that have the lowest differences in your treatment settings. They should be used as your "reference gene". See also MIQE guidelines: (see attachment)