JUDGE THE CIRCUMSTANCES:

In our day to day life we pass through hostile surroundings and unexpected circumstances and we learn some important aspect of life from each of them. Every circumstance is a teacher and gives us some experience and these experiences guide us and teach us a lesson for the future. Generally when we face adverse situations in life we start feeling burdened with melancholic and dysphoric thoughts, we start developing negative experiences and dark visions surround us, later these negativity and dullness become bitter and we start making complaints for each and every thing present in our surrounding, resultant we start develop grudges with others, and then we start focusing on others, as what they are doing and what they have done to me. But if we start focusing on ourselves then we start recalling our memories and start realising what wrong we have done, then we become able to extract positive lessons from our bad experience. By analyzing our deeds we will be able to translate our negative experience into a positive experience and further we will transform our shortcomings into strength. If we let our negative experience dominate us and make us full of hatred and complaints, then we will deprive ourselves of every aspect of life. But we can easily convert our bad and painful experience into a good one by drawing lessons that increase our wisdom and this increased wisdom will help us in our future actions and develop us intellectually. (Dr S. M. Tariq Zafar)