The definition of parasitism implies that some living beings named 'parasites' take energy for individual survival at costs of living beings named 'hosts'.
Terminology 'host' might give the impression to 'non-specialists', like tourists, that parasites are always mentally invited to take energy. In addition, humans often give 'energy' (e.g. blood) without knowing the true identity of receivers, thus without having access to perceived costs or benefits involved.
How to make practically a distinction between 'taking', 'giving' and 'sharing' in Parasitology or Sociology when mental states of actors are ignored?