You conduct a reaction coordinate for the approach of M with the pyridinic nitrogen (-N=). For example if the distance M-------N is 5 A, you start the approach in increment of 0.2 A. To reach M-N distance of 2 A you need 15 steps of 0.2 A each step.
Upon the approach of M towards N the water breaks from the metal to give unbound H2O (I expect that the release of H2O will be immediately after reaching the transition state).