As indicated by others, XMI is the standard, defined by the OMG www.omg.org. However, many tool vendors add "vendor specific" fields to their XMI files which makes them not one-on-one compatible. Notably graphical information such as layout and colors are vendor specific, only structure is standardized.
'XPDL (XML Process Definition Language) is a language for defining a workflow .It was created by WfMC in 2001 and 3 October 2005 version 2.0 was released.
XPDL is a file format based on XML that can be used to exchange business process models between different tools.' (wikipedia)