Dear Dr Raid

 I think the main influence on the children is his mother, then his friends and the last influence come to father. In the first years from 1 to 6 he has his mother around him all the time while he sees his father for few hours. When he is 6-12 he began to influence by the environment as his colleagues in school and at home. When he is at 13 to 20, he sees himself as a man and he try to brake down his father authority. As a result the effect of the DAD is the last one.

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I think mother has mor effects on thier kids

This what we call Socio-environmental interaction; as per layman school of thoughts female babies more attached with their fathers and male babies /Child with their mothers per se; the question is affected by whom / which factor impact more                     i may say all have their own influence in different contest and this is called Epigenetic inheritance. Its all Epigenome not Genome....There are so many Paternal Epigenetic transmission there, so not only mother has more effect / influence over their kids......

Any of the listed factors can predominate because there is a great variety of situations inside and outside the family.   

For the birth of child , our mother is a creator & after the arrival of the child he understands,the environment of caste,creed & religion & with the little passage of time the cultural atmosphere  in the family .

Sometimes back , in the similar line of topic i express my views in my publication under the captioned'' Children -Our Light for parents'' which i submit herewith for your perusal & also for our valued readers.

This is my personal opinion 

hello salih

In my opinion, at each stage of the age a child is affected by a personality, for exemple when it is little kids, generally it is his mother, and when he is young, it is the father and the society.

Dear Chaouki Hannachi

you mean that the chiled effects will change with his ages.

Thanks

Dear Rohit M Parikh

full thanks for your personal opinion

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Yes dear raid,

Dear Rajesh Parsanathan

thank you very much for your comments.

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Do children affected by the father more or mothers. And did the religion, country or friends or environmental impact more?

Depending on the quantity & quality interactions between the father or mother with the children.  Interactions here can include: 2-ways communications, games, providing advice, guidance, disciplines etc.  Surrounding / environmental factors influencing the parents also play a role in affecting the relationship between children and their father or mother.  E.g. when a mother needs to work outside and the father spends more time with children at home might affect the children-father relationship vs children-mother relationship.

Non-parental factors like religion, country, friends, environmental factors also do play a role e.g. parents' peer influence, family's middle child syndrome, society practice that emphasize on / give priority to sons might impact their relationship with parents vs' daughters relationship with parents etc.

Dear Fung

Thank you for participating in the issue and express an opinion.

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Father has more role than mother but environment is the most one

Dear Mushtaq Ahmad

thanks for your comment.

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Children are more attached to the mothers,  the breast feeding impact of mothers ( bounding) is responsible for this

Children are more attached to the mothers,  the breast feeding impact of mothers ( bounding) is responsible for this

Dear Javad

100 % you are correct , thanks for your notes

Dear Javad

100 % you are correct , thanks for your notes

dear Raid,

There is some useful informations related to this topic in the attached documents.

B.Regards.

Dear Hannechi

thanks for your time.

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Raid

For several years ago was more emphasis on the relationship between mother and her children, and the importance of its presence in the lives of their attention

And care, and this is due to get a feel for the mother is the main responsible for the care of children since their birth, and their need for sticking out of a sense of tenderness, love and care.

The importance of the father in the family presence and participation in Terpahalobina:

Children need to feel that there is protection and care and guidance and evaluate different from what they found in the mother, and that the father is the primary sponsor

The family is responsible for his flock.

And emphasizes the studies on the causes of the failure of the children in the study and practical life or increasing incidence of addiction or violence to one of the most important reasons is the absence of the father's role in the family

The father is the source of power in the house and can every father to correct what rolls of neglect of his sons and not to follow, that starts with attention to them and trying to accompany them and find out their ideas and preferences and hobbies, and tries to help them solve their problems, and to know their friends without direct intervention in their choice, and have a faithful friend Protein content even if it is absent.

Yes, children need the mother, but at a certain age children need a father. A study was conducted on 17,000 children at Oxford University in England in 2002 AD

It was found that:

· Girls Ncin between the mother and father were less likely psychiatric · in future lives.

· Who was a good relationship with their parents, the boys were far from · all the problems of violence and crime.

· Who were close to their fathers, the boys did not have the emotional or psychological problems are also the future of their lives in the study and the other was a more stable more self-confidence

· Intervention of the father in child rearing since childhood make communication easy with them in all of the following stages of life.

These results showed that the proper education and proper relationship between parents and children is not only dependent on the presence of the father, but over the continuing father with his children.

Here, we say that the responsibility of the father and mother bring psychological balance for children and be sympathetic in the way and style of child-rearing from the very beginning and cooperate together in the upbringing of their children proper upbringing to create a family together contribute to building a successful society.

Dear Dr. Raid it is beautiful question  i think  child affected  in his father and other affected in mother as how is powerful and child may affected at school or where he lives .

In muslim countries religion has great impact on society and children in particular,

Boys are more attached to mothers and girls to father,

Dear Dr Raid

 I think the main influence on the children is his mother, then his friends and the last influence come to father. In the first years from 1 to 6 he has his mother around him all the time while he sees his father for few hours. When he is 6-12 he began to influence by the environment as his colleagues in school and at home. When he is at 13 to 20, he sees himself as a man and he try to brake down his father authority. As a result the effect of the DAD is the last one.

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Dear Kolita Weerasekera

thanks for your suggestions.

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Raid

Dear Dr Raid

Despite of the children loving affections to their parents, but they may recognize one special preferential treatment. It is said often that the girl be closer to her father and the male to be closer to his mother. This equation, although it is true in some cases, but it is not always correct, which is linked to the family atmosphere and the way parents deal with their children. In the case invoked one of them to play a decisive role of the second and played the role of an wishes achiever, the cuff inevitably will tend to favor the second option. In the case of relations within the family are not stable and marred by domestic violence, the issue here beyond the limits of normal relations may reach the boys to renounce one of their parents and blame and perhaps hatred.

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