The Sexual and Physical Abuse Questionnaire (SPAQ) for the assessment of sexual and physical abuse during childhood and later life;
The Child and Youth Resilience Measure (CYRM) for the resilience;
or this research may help you : http://www.childwitnesstoviolence.org/uploads/2/5/7/9/257929/howell.assessing_resilience_in_preschool_children_exposed_to_intimate_partner_violence.pdf