I think being yourself in society and even your private life is too hard. Why?
Just Be Yourself. Even being unwanted. Do you agree?
I think it only appears to be hard, but actually becoming oneself is possible when one have control and balance in life style, attitude and vision.
Every good thing is difficult to achieve. But if you have balance in thought process, speech and action you can achieve that.
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"Sometimes you need to sit lonely on the floor in a quiet room in order to hear your own voice and not let it drown in the noise of others."
"Don't go on discussing what a good person should be. Just be one."
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Dear Parisa Ziarati
Thank you for your interesting question. These days we value more the intellectual mind rather than the feeling heart- - the home of our true Self - rediscovering our deeper self is a journey which many do not undertake ...it requires courage and deep listening to learn to live from our heart.
Warm regards -Tina
Life is beautiful despite a lot of interventions and contradictory events that make things hard nowadays. Inner peaceful and wisdom make our life easier.
Life is beautiful but how we are taking it left.
Dr Kamath Madhusudhana
One should be a woman and living now in Iran to understand what you mean dear Angel Parisa Ziarati!
We expect more and more ,this more is not having any upper boundary so we are hard ourself
I think it always had been difficult to dare to be oneself. I'm actually translating a 1538 book of Antonio Manutius, that just tried to be himself the best he could. He ended up threaten of heresy and his family had to declare him dead by pest in non-pest times and publish another book with a similar title, from another author. So roughly, we're doing a bit better than in 1538.
And, as women, worst even being yourself. It's only very recent women are allowed to have a self. Code Napoleon transforms the women in an object of his husband, and, even largely remodeled, it's still in the French legal code. Before 1954, women in France could not vote. My grandmother was said a whore because, one of the first female tennis players in France, she was showing publicly her ankle. Still, it have been courageous women that show the way.
There are various pressures from various sources to do work in a manner that pleases them. This is true in university departments, agencies and any workplace. In some organizations they adopt the motto, "it is not what you know, it is whom you know." Thus quite often it is difficult to be oneself unless you are your own boss.
Even though there is the temptation to be fake to please the world, it is ideal we be ourselves
Main problem is "The fear of what people will say has killed more dreams than anything in this world"
I think the main cause is community itself. its not necessary to deceive to please the world, be as you are. every one either has friends or enemies.
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