In my opinion, the main reason is disrespect for others. Often, this striving for others to act "as it should", i.e. in accordance with the person’s conception. When others demonstrate their own desires, aspirations, ideas, this causes aggression in such person. Well, the lack of education, lack of socialization, unreasonably high self-esteem ...

Often, a person tends to lead, and everybody around "do not recognize" him. Such a contrast between self-perception and the attitude of others can lead either to deep depression and a drop of activity, or, for a strong personality, to aggression.

This applies not only to men and not only to science. I also saw the “most beautiful” ones, who simply demanded (indirectly) “confession” from others in a very aggressive way.

Please see the following link

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/passive-aggressive-diaries/201403/7-reasons-why-people-use-passive-aggressive-behavior

Best Regards Parisa Ziarati

The reasons are many.

Aggression is often caused "artfully".

What are the main reasons for being aggressive in jobs or relationships?

There can be various reasons which might be different reasons to different people. E.g.:

In my opinion, the main reason is disrespect for others. Often, this striving for others to act "as it should", i.e. in accordance with the person’s conception. When others demonstrate their own desires, aspirations, ideas, this causes aggression in such person. Well, the lack of education, lack of socialization, unreasonably high self-esteem ...

Often, a person tends to lead, and everybody around "do not recognize" him. Such a contrast between self-perception and the attitude of others can lead either to deep depression and a drop of activity, or, for a strong personality, to aggression.

This applies not only to men and not only to science. I also saw the “most beautiful” ones, who simply demanded (indirectly) “confession” from others in a very aggressive way.

In my opinion, two factors are important; cultural and social factors.

I think the root cause for this aggression is dissatisfaction in life at professional or personal level or both, in todays fast paced life a person has very little time for himself / herself or for things he / she cherish, this lack of avaliability of quality time leads to misunderstandings, miscommunications and frustrations, which accumulate over the years turning into rage.

Immense of expectations

Thank you all dear friends and colleagues for your valuable answers, Appreciate you all!

In my experience, when someone becomes aggressive on an argument, it is because their argument are weak, or they lack the vocabulary to express it correctly. By adding volume, taking an aggressive attitude, they are more likely to intimidate their "opponent". If they succeed to bring fear, the victim will have less access to the more complex regions of its brain (survival reflex), and therefore, might be less able to prove their points.

Those bullies try to make their weak argument pass by adding volume to it.

It is a working strategy for them, it works on some individuals who associate authority with a strong voice..... But on the long run, it can only block the best possible outcome.

In an organizational context, it has been analyzed that Inter personal relationship is affected by factors and approaches both facilitating and inhibiting; which ultimately increases obligation and commitment for the benefit of organization

Data IPR at work place model

@ Parisa Ziarati

Kirti ..

Many reasons knitted and linked relatively=

1. Un-prepared

2. Time Pressure

3. Non-cooperation from Peers

4. High Expectations

5. Bad-Matching of Job/Person

6. Unfulfilled Psychological Contract

7. Unrelated External Pressures and Tensions

8. Ethical Dilemma

9. Pessimistic Nature

10. Less Self-Motivation

The number one reason is fear. fear of losing respect or self-esteem. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

Mistrust & selfishness reasons

Aggression is often witnessed in relationships and jobs because a person who is aggressive believes he/she will win over any situation by showing attitude. Such people are often very arrogant and hotheaded.

It is rather difficult to pinpoint a single cause of aggression for a person on the job or in a relationship. Often it is only a symptom of a combination of things including dissatisfaction on a very deep level, fear or even a lack of appreciation or even rejection (whether verbalized or not). I would also want to consider the possibility of of overwhelm. The influence of information overload can be easily overlooked but I believe it's affecting people's overall mental health and resulting behavior in our present world

Dear all,

an interesting question. We can distinguish between people who are often aggressive and aggressive behavior that is seldom happening, but it happens to everyone. People who are frequently aggressive behave have a lack of confidence, knowledge, or lack of strength to do something in a regular manner, and they try to achieve it by expressing aggression as a substitute for other arguments.

People who rarely act aggressively sometimes for some reason (we have tapped it into his area, family problems, illness, financial problems, loss of something and many other reasons) quickly understand their behavior and correct it.

Unfortunately, those first people do not correct their behavior. They really need help.

When we talk about love between men and women, it is a very complicated area and there is little room for analysis. Often, we think we are losing something that we have not really ... The heart hurts, but that does not have to be a cause for aggression.

There are examples in Croatia, and probably in other countries where a guy killed a girl (a drastic end of aggressive behavior) for jealousy ..

Increasing work load and depression may one of the very valid reasons.

Things were going against your wish/thinking/opinion

Frustration

The Genesis of Aggression is oftentimes embedded in active or passive anger fueled by internal or external circumstances within/around an individual!

Aggression displays individual inability to handle personal emotions. Person's control over circumstances is less or none and hence anxieties associated with the outcomes are terrifying.

Great discussion. Following

I think pride and frustration are the two main reasons

There could be various reasons depending on nature of job, individual and society. I think, the work-life imbalance is amongst the major causes of aggression.

I think low performance as compare to their counter part and frustration due to poor performance are the two main reasons.

There are no reasons to be aggressive in job or relations. Life is wide and can accommodate all.

Ambition may be above reasonable, leading to aggression and other undesirable attitudes.