Particles and antiparticles have the same mass and lifetime. They each decay into equal particles with opposite charges. Not so these particles. Their lifetimes are very different and their decays prove that they are two completely different particles.
K0S → 2 π0
K0L → π- + μ+
K0L → π+ + μ-
Analysis of the decays shows that the K0S consists of two uncharged pions [ 2 π0 ] and the K0L consists of a muon and a charged pion: [ π- μ+ ] or [ π+ μ- ]. The K0L is a particle-antiparticle pair and the uncharged kaons form a particle triplet.