Try the vineland adaptive behavior scales

You could look into the Mayer-Salovey-Caruso Emotional Intelligence Test:

YRV, see

http://www.mhs.com/product.aspx?gr=edu&prod=msceityrv&id=overview

The MSCEIT is expensive, even with a discount .  You might look into the Bar-On EA-i:YV

http://www.mhs.com/product.aspx?gr=edu&prod=eqiyv&id=overview

The TEIQue children or adolescent forms are suitable.

In spanish

Hi. the following scale can be used for assessing emotional Intelligence:

Wong's Emotional Intelligence Scale (WEIS)

The Schutte Self Report Emotional Intelligence Test (SSEIT)