A person that can thrive in a relational environment with others which includes: love others as himself / herself, think win-win, capable to contribute benefits to others cognitively, emotionally & physically etc.
A person that can thrive in a relational environment with others which includes: love others as himself / herself, think win-win, capable to contribute benefits to others cognitively, emotionally & physically
The pleasure is mine, sincerely. Thank you for starting this Q & A with a highly informative and comprehensive feedback.
One of the successful factor that makes a person great agreeably as you mention is virtue. But before that, allow me to rearrange your input (IN BOLD) to simplify my reply and expand your points (IN ITALICS).
Virtue alone comes in many form and places - implicit and explicit
a. THE PERSON - He / She has to minimally developed, already acquired or innately attained these quality traits
- Honesty - a yes-yes character to start with
- Integrity - the soundness of moral character (Dictionary.com, 2017)
- TRUSTWORTHY - someone who could be relied upon in time of need or otherwise
- IMPARTIAL - not easily swayed by gossips or street-talking
- OBJECTIVE - S.M.A.R.T. approach goal-oriented to achieve success and greatness
- Flexibility - able to "follow the flow of time", not rigid in judgment or decisions
- Self-Confidence - the start point before embarking onto great mission and vision
- Emotionally Open - transparent in time of anger or compliment
- Kindness - when errors are made, to correct and to continue with the S.M.A.R.T. goal
- Courageousness - the will to carry on with the objective and thrive
b. HIS / HER WORK OR EXPERTISE - Success is an effort not a given
- KNOWLEDGE AND EXPERTISE IN HUMAN RESOURCES - useful to have
- Work Ethic - a belief in work as a moral good (Merriam-Webster, 2017).
- Discipline - the will to follow the code of conduct and work ethic strictly
- Proper communication skills - to limit error(s) when passing messages
c. HIS / HER INTUITION - innate or acquired, a medium deem necessary to attain such greatness though subject to omission by some people, they are important ... still
- Intelligence - either through nature or nurture
- Education - could be formal or hands-on
- Common Sense - the instinct or gut feeling to make the right decision
- Have spiritual teachers - to guide and appease your physical and mental strains
- Mentors - to facilitate your journey and correct any errors to being a great person
- Partners - could be in business, leisure, institutions, organizations; understanding, caring and sharing of work / life burdens, wealth and happiness
With such display of great virtue, few people could fully achieve such greatness in his/her life. Yet, it is not impossible to be one too. Fret not what you become, JUST DO YOUR BEST. You may not be the great person to the world. The least you could be is the best in your trade or profession even within your small circle of friends, partners and colleagues.
Thank you once again Parisa for an embellished information that take me awhile to respond. Nevertheless it is useful enough thus paving a way for us to be better person(s), if not great (of course it's great to be GREAT).
A pure person or what makes a person truly genuine (Hall, 2014)? That is one way of being a great person.
As Hall puts it, there are 6 signs of being pure or genuine.
They are 1) High self-esteem 2) Embrace vulnerability 3) Share your true thoughts, beliefs and opinions with the world 4) Openly give and receive compliments 5) Really listen — and prefer deep conversations 6) Driven by an inner voice rather than your surroundings (Hall, 2014).
All the signs make up the purest of your heart and makes you a great person in your own way.
I do agree with you that self-reconciliation is a way to being great. It releases us of any bogging burdens that we may have thus making us lighter to move about, literally, not worrying the least about the regrettable past we leave behind. Neither would we be bothered about what we could not undone suffice to refrain from doing the same mistakes repeatedly in the future. The present, at the moment matters though the future is part of the planning. But a self-enlightenment is the way to move forward to a new great life.
Like Emad suggested, this is another extra way of attaining such greatness. Be truthful, transparent and follow your heart. Nicely put and the way to go.
Looking back at Sundar Pichai, Google CEO Inc. Though coming from middle-class society, the family is not rich (Roberts, 2015). They did not own a phone until he was 12 (The Famous People, 2017). Not because they were poor ironically but they have even to scrimp humbly even for computer (Roberts, 2015).
Now he is not only a rich and famous person but a great man to exemplify or role-modeled.
Richard Branson is a great person then and now owing to his father's advice on the willingness to listen more than talking (Branson, 2017). It has been proven that this attribute does make one a great person. Your feedback is aptly proven here.
Ethics does play a part in being a great man/woman. Actually it is a recipe of an upright successful person. By whose standard? By the great person himself, if not others.
The greatness of his/her friends come in handy too. It is such relationship that motivates one to rise together with the great person. A positive approach to being great, actually.
Greatness is not the same a being publicly acclaimed. Greatness, to me, arises from dealing with the situtaion life gives us and caring about others. So someone born with multiple disabilities eg. Helen Keller is great because s/he dealt with them and created a meaningful life, aware and open to others. Someone who has been raped or tortured or born into grinding poverty is great if despite these difficulties they choose to live ... try to create a positive existence and do for others [be that other persons or animals or even plants.]. Eg. Jane Goodall is great for what she has done for/with chimps, someone with PTD is great if they create a meaningful life despite their limiitations.
Many others have extolled virtues that seem common to Great men or women. I would like to suggest that the defining virtue for greatness is not common at all. It is a vision that others cannot or do not have, in context to a situation and a commitment to an action knowing the risks and personal costs. Greatness can present itself in spite of personal flaws based on the will of the individual.
Mahatma Gandhi was a great man. His early ideas became the core for his philosophy. He was early committed to truthfulness, temperance, chastity, and vegetarianism. According to the Bible being great means serving others. Is it cool to be known?
Greatness is measured by one attaining a well fulfilled life full of accomplishments that brings relief and improves the state of life of the person and more importantly others. A great person whether man or woman is responsible in attending to his/her duties whether family, work etc. In a cluster of his/her achievements, s/he is humble, affable and down-to-earth. S/he is not boastful of his/her achievements and doesn't lodge his/her views over others. A great person is not selfish but assists others to reach his/her attained heights and a great motivator. S/he is patient and understands the limitations of others while gently tapping them through setting short and easily attainable goals till they finally improve the wellbeing of themselves and others through the products of their hardwork.
S/he is said to be great not by himself/herself, as if s/he is blowing his/her own horn but rather the drums of his/her achievements that has and continues to improve the state of life of people is being played in his/her society and/or globally. Thanks
I am not sure whether or not this has been mentioned, but an attribute that makes a great person, for me, is emotional intelligence. I highly believe that with this attribute, Carl Roger's core conditions (E, C, UPR) manifests itself.
Others share a simple qualities, characters, situational or relational points to make one a great man/woman,
In your case, including and achieving rare vision with own will at personal costs and flaws are also the characters that one needs to achieve greatness.
Both are not wrong, it is a matter of perspectives and sightings that complement one to the other.
Yours are one aspect of such complementary solution to being a great person.
Mahatma is indeed one great person. The Bible and most religion do ameliorate greatness by serving others. It is cool to be known to others for being great for as long as it is withing the premise of being a good and exemplary role model. Conversely, it is not cool if such pursuit is for self-aggrandizement and bloated ego thus damaging the concept of greatness totally.
Thank you for another differential view on being a great man/woman.
A good man can feel the pain of others. A great man isn't afraid to do what is right, no matter what. WOMAN is happy with herself and her own abilities. She appreciates who she is as an individual, embraces her femininity and is proud to be a woman. A real woman is honest .
Thank you for offering other perspectives on the concept of greatness.
Uplifting own and others life are indeed remarkable. As aforementioned, It comes in the form of humility, dutiful, motivational and being patient towards others shortcomings. Improving others quality of life are all the qualities of being a great man/woman.
The emotional intelligence attribute has not been broached before. It is one of the qualities that could manifest itself as per Roger's condition in making one a great person.
Thank you for suggesting another perspective on being a great person.
There are many aspects, let us say, to make a good man or woman. To me, most important are: having good manners and ethics, being real human, humble,and cooperative.
Woman or man, the great one rules her/his own temper.
32 Celui qui est tardif à colère, vaut mieux que l'homme fort; et celui qui est le maître de son cœur, vaut mieux que celui qui prend des villes. La Bible David Martin 1744
Peter the great had many co-rulers and an unhappy wife, who was forced to become a nun. He was over 2 m tall. After having read about the two Greats' personal lives they do not seem to have been happy people.
32 He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.
King James Bible
32 Долготерпеливый лучше храброго, и владеющий собою [лучше] завоевателя города.
One's temper could create global tempest disaster if left unchecked but on the flip side, it is the one of the mark of a great person.
How aptly so as translated hereunder -
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32 He who is late in anger is better than a strong man; And he who is master of his heart is better than he who takes cities. The Bible David Martin 1744
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A person who could control / late in his anger is indeed much stronger. And those who could appease his heart could take on any life challengers including but not limiting to that of conquering cities or even countries.
It is one of the quality of a great person and not anybody can reach this level easily.
The sad thing about being great, like other normal people is the joy of being happy. And greatness is not totally about being able to conquer any city (cities) but to conquer his and his significant others emotion and his adversities with all his relations.
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32 The long-suffering one is better than the brave, and owns the [conqueror] of the conqueror of the city
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Being great is not only about being famous, successful people. The beauty lies herein the fact that one is the master of his.her own destiny and overcoming any implicit or explicit conflicts are indeed a great feat.
One good aspect of being a great man you bring up, here. Quality family times brings out the best in men and women. This in turn bring up the great quality of being a great person.
These are the things we miss upon - to do things useful and beneficial to all mankind. Also to make others happy too. All are great aspects that make a person - great.
There are many personalities in all countries of the world, we cherish them all regardless of their countries or religions, because they imposed themselves with their great personalities and many proverbs. In our Islamic world, the Prophet Muhammad is the greatest human being and he has all the good morals and the high qualities of the great personality and the Imam Ali Ibn Abi Talib Muhammad in his ethics such as humility, honesty and honesty. Imam Hussein sacrificed himself and everything for the sake of a decent life for others, as well as the work of Gandhi made sacrifices for his people. And many others
It is not so much on reminding all about being great but we are already great people in our own way. Sustaining good qualities, characters and good way of life are never easy but the rewards are self-fulfiling apart from achieving social greatness.
Indeed there are great religious figures that propounded greatness in their own way. It is good to note that not one but all good religions share the same concept of greatness regardless as to whom quoted first just like Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon Him), Imam Ali and even Mahatma included.
Thank you for bringing in the spiritual leaders and the aspect of religion to achieve greatness.
All man being equal in the eyes of God. No human is superior left those who maintain greatness as his way of life and treat one another as human and not employer/employee, master/servant, King/subjects most of the time. Designation is created to allow those with higher intellectual plane to share with the lesser ones and it is this creation that makes him/her great in the eyes of mankind.
Thank you for your kind feedback on humanity aspect of being great.