Will you please share what do you know how can we make our life happy?
Why are some people happier than others?
1. Limitation of ambition within the limit of self efficiency.
2. Leaving of all types of jealousy.
3. Developing power to share joy of all others and also practice to share joy and owe of self with some persons staying close to mind.
4.Always keeping in mind that many persons are living with lesser capability than me.
5. Never losing temper in any circumstance.
6. Practice to enjoy songs, music, novel, stories, cinema etc. as per choice.
7. Occasional facing of self in some lonely place.
8. Occasional tour to some lonely place (with natural beauty) without any electronic machines (cell phone, laptop, television etc.).
9. Never cheating anybody.
10.Search and maintenance of a few friends with at least some similarity in thoughts etc.
1. Limitation of ambition within the limit of self efficiency.
2. Leaving of all types of jealousy.
3. Developing power to share joy of all others and also practice to share joy and owe of self with some persons staying close to mind.
4.Always keeping in mind that many persons are living with lesser capability than me.
5. Never losing temper in any circumstance.
6. Practice to enjoy songs, music, novel, stories, cinema etc. as per choice.
7. Occasional facing of self in some lonely place.
8. Occasional tour to some lonely place (with natural beauty) without any electronic machines (cell phone, laptop, television etc.).
9. Never cheating anybody.
10.Search and maintenance of a few friends with at least some similarity in thoughts etc.
@ Dr Shibabrata Pattanayak,
Thank you so much for the comprehensive answer as well as for recommending my question.
Happiness comes from within so if someone wants to attain this happiness he/she has to cleanse her inner self.
Happiness is a inner part mechanism of body.it will mostly occur when we do some satisfactory work by heart.serotonin receptor are freely increase inbody and they will also called happy receptor.so be calm and do good work with by heart..
@ Jagmohan Sharma
@ Azad Singh
Thank you so much for your time and contribution. Its informative.
Dear Dr. Hom Nath Chalise,
Please also have a look at these useful links.
https://www.researchgate.net/post/What_is_the_secret_of_happiness_and_do_you_suffer_from_existential_anxiety
https://www.quora.com/Whats-the-secret-of-happiness
Good luck!
@ Dr Arvind Singh,
Thank you so much for your positive feed back and support.
@ Dr Emad Kamil Hussein,
Thank you.
When ever i see the post written as SMILE in social media, I start to smile my self. Some times my family member ask me why are you smiling,.....I tell them here its written please smile. Then, they start to laugh...
True happiness is about giving not receiving. Material life is like a heavy weight on the shoulder of our soul. More we give; more the soul feel light and happy.
The Secret to Happiness? Buy Experiences, Not Things.
"Fill your life with experiences, not things. Have stories to tell, not stuff to show."
Every day we work hard to earn money and after spending it on regular expenses we always thought of what to do with the remaining money? Some people buy bunch of high quality gadgets and products, some people love to buy new cloths and decorative items. We love buying things and spend most of our savings in buying different things as the media and advertisements around us enforce us to believe that happiness is matter of buying expensive gadgets, driving the best car, shopping from big malls and wearing trendy cloths etc.
Every CTA button of these advertisements trying to haunt you with same message “BUY BUY BUY – Your way to happiness!” But is it really true? These things may be satisfying for a short duration and then there comes a time when its thrill fades away and people again come out in the pursuit of happiness.
There is human logic behind this buying things syndrome, people think if they buy a physical objects rather than spending money on experiences it will last longer and will make them happier for a longer duration as compared to go on adventures to get unique experiences. But the recent research shows that this assumption is completely wrong.
Recent research from San Francisco State University found that people are far more satisfied and happy when they buy experiences rather than buying material objects. It proves in a scientific way that thrill of purchasing the material objects fades quickly but memories of experiences of going on epic adventures last for a lifetime. This study reveals that in the long run, we cherish our memories and experiences which actually make us happy to cherish those memories for lifetime.
According to the research of Dr. Thomas Gilovich, a psychology professor at Cornell University who has been studying the question of money and happiness for over two decades, says that we buy things to make us happy and even we get succeed in that but it last only for a while. Buying new things make us happy but then we adapt to them, and according to him "One of the enemies of happiness is adaptation" So according to his research rather than buying expensive gadgets or materialistic things, one can get more happiness by spending money on getting experiences like travelling, going on different adventures to experience and create a life time memories.
@ Zin Eddine Dadach
Thank you.
Point to be noted: More we give; more the soul feel light and happy.
@ Mohammed H. Musleh
Thank you.
Point noted: Rather than buying expensive gadgets or materialistic things, one can get more happiness by spending money on getting experiences like travelling, going on different adventures to experience and create a life time memories.
"Happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy. Your happiness will not come to you. It can only come from you."
- Ralph Marston
"Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections."
- Gerard Way
"Happiness doesn't depend on what we have, but it does depend on how we feel toward what we have. We can be happy with little and miserable with much."
- William D. Hoard
"Rules for Happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for."
- Immanuel Kant
The secret of Happiness is Contentment
Conquering is an inexhaustible treasure of happiness
Dear powerful and respected Hom,
The best way to be happy is to be contented on what Allah has given onto you.. Another way to be happy is to make what Allah has created happy... Engage in good act.
Best regards.
Kifilideen...
To have limitless happiness, just lead a simple life, forgive quickly, keep your joy and more importantly, help others, especially the poor and disadvantaged in the society.
Always looking forays of making other people around you happy - always putting a smile on another person.
Always contented with the little you have
To be in a constant state of Happiness is impossible for us as we are interdependent on each other. It is an Attribute of G-D alone. thanks.
@ Kifilideen Lekan Osanyinpeju,
From the literature review and while doing other people's submitted article review (as a peer reviewer), I have found, generally religious people are happier than other people what ever religious they follow.
Good morning friends,
“Life has no remote....get up and change it yourself!” ― Mark A. Cooper
Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own.
- H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
Happiness is a choice. You can choose to be happy. There's going to be stress in life, but it's your choice whether you let it affect you or not.
- Valerie Bertinelli
The moments of happiness we enjoy take us by surprise. It is not that we seize them, but that they seize us.
- Ashley Montagu
The care of human life and happiness, and not their destruction, is the first and only object of good government.
- Thomas Jefferson
Life is full of happiness and tears; be strong and have faith.
- Kareena Kapoor Khan
To a father growing old nothing is dearer than a daughter.
- Euripides
Silver and gold are not the only coin; virtue too passes current all over the world.
- Euripides
Good morning friends,
Silence is one of the great arts of conversation
The secret of happiness is to admire without desiring. And that is not happiness.
- F. H. Bradley
Curiosity is one of the great secrets of happiness.
- Bryant H. McGill
What we call the secret of happiness is no more a secret than our willingness to choose life.
- Leo Buscaglia
The secret of happiness is variety, but the secret of variety, like the secret of all spices, is knowing when to use it.
- Daniel Gilbert
The secret of happiness is to find a congenial monotony.
- V. S. Pritchett
Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else. It will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.
- Bruce Lee
Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness. It is far better take things as they come along with patience and equanimity.
- Carl Jung
Desire is the starting point of all achievement, not a hope, not a wish, but a keen pulsating desire which transcends everything.
Napoleon Hill
You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.
- C. S. Lewis
Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.
- Jim Rohn
Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present.
- Jim Rohn
To be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness.
- Bertrand Russell
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You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream. - C. S. Lewis
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Success is not the key to happiness, happiness is the key to success.
- Herman Cain
I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love than to be a success at something you hate.
- George Burns
True success, true happiness lies in freedom and fulfillment.
- Dada Vaswani
Unless we think of others and do something for them, we miss one of the greatest sources of happiness.
- Ray Lyman Wilbur
People take different roads seeking fulfilment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost.
H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
It is not in the pursuit of happiness that we find fulfillment, it is in the happiness of pursuit.
- Denis Waitley
Happiness comes of the capacity to feel deeply, to enjoy simply, to think freely, to risk life, to be needed.
- Storm Jameson
The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet.
- James Oppenheim
The secret to happiness is to find a congenial monotony.
- Sean O'Casey
People don't notice whether it's winter or summer when they're happy.
- Anton Chekhov
The secrets to happiness include enterprise, exploration of one's interests and the overcoming of obstacles.
- Bertrand Russell
The secret of happiness, you see, is not found in seeking more, but in developing the capacity to enjoy less.
- Socrates
Dear powerful and respected Dr. Hom Nath Chalise,
I agree with you. Religious people are happier than other people what ever religious they follow. God the owner of the earth has given guidelines which are stated in the book on how and manner we should live this life in order to have peace and rest of mind but those that digress from the guidelines make life unbearable and difficult to live in.
Best regards
Kifilideen.
@ Dr Kifilideen Lekan Osanyinpeju,
Thank you so much for important views.
PS: I am not a powerful person.
Dear Dr. Hom Nath Chalise,
I gave most researchers on this platform special treatment because they were very important to me and I gained a lot from them in which you were among. That was why I referred to you has been powerful and well respected.
Best regards
Kifilideen
Dear Kifilideen Lekan Osanyinpeju,
We all are equal in RG, we express, share, comments what ever we think its good, relevant.
Regards
Hom
Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.
- Gerard Way
Rules for Happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.
- Immanuel Kant
Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.
- Albert Schweitzer
Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life.
- Omar Khayyam
Being your authentic self is the ultimate secret to happiness in life!
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