In the standard approximations it is the way the attractive and repulsive forces scale that is different. For example, the attractive portion (van der Waals force) is described by a Hamaker constant, A, which is not different for any geometry. However, the way this Hamaker A is used is different. The attractive van der Waals force may be calculated for a sphere-sphere interaction as
F = -A/(6L2) (R1R2/(R1+R2))
where L is the distance between spheres 1 and 2 of radii R1and R2, respectively.
For a sphere-plate interaction, on the other hand, the force is
F = -AR/(6L2)
where R is the radius of the sphere. So you see it is simply the scaling that is different. The same sort of scaling applies to the repulsive electrostatic forces. I suggest reading chapter 13 and 14 of Israelachvili's "Intermolecular and surface forces", 2011 (3rd ed.).