In most cases, financial issue plays an important negative effect on such emotional feelings and relationships, and there are\were many real examples under this title!!!!

Our working stress is negative impact to the emotional intelligence and working environment. Working environment including superior, co workers and other factors.job description is also impact on EI.

Main point in this regard:

EGO CLASH with colleagues, authorities, spouse etc.

our surroundings and somehow stress that affect both the body and mind

Self greed for material benefit.

Lack of self discipline, greed, uncontentment, selfishness, egotism, among others.

Respected Emad Kamil Hussein, Sivanathan Sivaruban , Shibabrata Pattanayak , Shibani Dash, Ajit kumar Roy , Segun Michael Abegunde and Paul Olusegun Bankole , thank you so much for your valuable answers. I agree with all, but is there any solution as to how can we maintain our emotional intelligence?

Is there any way we can heal our wounded emotions? The atrocities of life and circumstances leave us shattered, but how can we curb these and live a better and a happy life?

Just living your day with 20 minutes of sport in a fresh air zone and every thing will be OK. I srongly recommend such life style.

Emad Kamil Hussein Sir, yes, living an active life full of sports and extra curricular activities surely will help.

Thank you so much for your useful and wise contribution.

Regards,

Hi your Question “What disturbs our Emotional Intelligence” is A True and Practical Question everyone who’s Mature enough faces in this World now. I believe no one is that much Independent or Isolated that their Mood or Emotions didn’t get affected by others (Family Friends Strangers Others). One should think and take some time before making Harsh or Abrupt Decisions during Disturbed Moods. It would only leads to Destruction of Relationships and enter on a path which is lonely and isolated. A person with good IQ and successful career and family life would not want to be in such a bad situation. So one should be that much Emotionally Strong and Mature that small immature Disturbances or mistakes of others wouldn’t affect them at all. I hope my Thoughts worth provides others Positive Messages. Regards

Dear Sarah, your question about emotional intelligence is nice. I certainly would read Antonio's Damasio's work. It also might be nice to read the many publications of the Dalai Lama. Bishop Tutu said to him: "you must feel terrible as the oldest refugee in the world". The Dalai Lama said: "it depends with whom you compare my sorrow. The are people of Tibet who have been killed and tortured. And furthermore he said: "I would have been a boring monk without these experiences, only knowing how to meditate and a lot about neuropsychology." This might be part of the answer you are looking for Sarah. All the best Carl

I limit my dealings with people now out of choice. I no longer really want too much of the helter skelter of dealing with others. My work takes the place of these things. We only live once. and really: 'too much energy in a waste of shame'-forget emotions, think about the brain

Anything that interferes with our normal emotions and adversely effects our intelligence can be the cause of disturbance for our cognitive and affective abilities that could ultimately lead to affect our practical life.

Yes, we can minimize these disturbing factors by avoiding, and ignoring them.

Thank you so very much for your wise and very useful answers, Ivo Carneiro de Sousa

Syed Ismyl Mahmood Rizvi

Your contributions are really meaningful!

Thank you.

Best Regards,

Sahar

I would say stress is the primary feature that disturbs our emotional intelligence.

I would say stress is the primary feature that disturbs our emotional intelligence.

Emotional intelligence is acquired by the individual from the environment that motivates him to use his mental abilities and enables him to inject these abilities with his inner feelings. Emotional intelligence includes the ability to receive and perceive external emotions taking into account these emotions to take the appropriate steps to achieve success in his personal and practical life.

Depending on the choice of the right partner before marriage, which is the first step to forming a successful family, a person must rely on reason and heart to find the right partner. People who rely on their brains only to look for a life partner who has certain qualities may find this person some or all These qualities but may not feel comfortable, and sometimes may find a few of these qualities feel a great tendency toward the future partner.

The couple will find the difference that can not be overcome in all cases, and here comes the role of emotional intelligence, which will not allow this dispute to reach a conflict because of the emotional intelligence will make this difference an opportunity to show his love and respect for the other party, and make his partner sure that love I am superior to any dispute.

Emotional intelligence helps to read the feelings of the self and the feelings of others and deal with them positively, and absence is one of the causes to deliver the marital relationship to a dead end. The absence of emotional intelligence may create a disarray in the feelings between the spouses, and this may worsen Faisal's dissonance and emotional dimension to end up with the passage of time for silent separation or divorce. A partner with emotional intelligence is more able to understand the feelings and feelings of his partner, and he has the skill to deal with problems and loopholes under the umbrella of true love feelings

Thank you Djaafar Zemali & Abdullah Noori for your wise and useful answers, and I completely agree with you both.

Regards,

Sahar.

I think that emotional intelligence is that man be fully aware and aware of the fact that he felt towards himself and others, and puts the same place the people who deal with them and feel their sense of the different situations they are going through to read the feelings of others and the ability to empathize with them.

Djaafar Zemali , yes, veritable.

...I think that the emotional intelligence of a woman is higher than the man, and by the nature of composition, sometimes the feelings governed by other men governed by logic more and is not drawn behind his feelings, pointing out that the emotional intelligence in a man is to feel the needs of his wife, whether from pain or joy and win Her emotional needs are words of flattery and love in all situations.

Adding that the loss of men's emotional intelligence makes the wife feel cold marriage life, because it does not find her husband to meet her emotional needs, and not feeling her love causes emotional fatigue in married life may lead to divorce.

That the loss of men's emotional intelligence helps the many problems in married life, because the wife feels not love and that her husband does not understand her feelings and emotional intelligence is limited to the special relationship between them and meet the material needs of the house, thinking it is enough.

Emotional intelligence is also useful in parents' relationship with children. In some cases, the mother needs to explain to her son the importance of understanding the feelings of others, express her sadness in words rather than emotions, and explain the influence of her son's actions on her feelings