Every wish, every fear and terror, every fragment of the past and present must be shared with each other, as if only in this way can the relationship between husband and wife become closer. But there is also a disadvantage: telling each other every detail of what happens every day has become a necessity, and there is no way to have your own exclusive space and secrets, as if you have lost yourself!

So I think this problem is specifically manifested in two aspects: one is that we cannot deny the basic principle of love: in a good relationship, it is crucial to be able to talk to your partner heart to heart. On the other hand, when we are accustomed to the communication mode of telling everything, we find that our relationship has not become closer. The basis of intimacy is not just knowing everything about the other person, but also the part of the secret that you don't know.