Interesting question, but well documented in development theory and practice. Gender is powerful when it relates to participation,  management and society. Gender sensitivity (female) is one of the factors that contributes to divides in the world. Acceptance of any intervention through female members in a rural household means a lot and this has been well recognized in MDGs, and WSIS frameworks.  

Throughout history, men and women have performed different but collaborative and complementary roles in society in family, households and communities. So the evolution and development of human society is the outcome of joint effort. So anything new to be done for future development should have a gender perspective for best possible outcome. 

You may look into gender and development literature. Hope this brief comment is useful.