Here is the HU argument about how General Relativity cannot be used in Astrophysics.
The commonly repeated assertion that bodies travel through geodesics in spacetime is wrong. That is only valid if those "bodies" have zero mass or if their mass is very small in comparison with the mass that is producing the "gravitational potential well".
The video is short and presents my analysis of both binary pulsars and the merger of binary black holes.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gtss7HkVwo0