I'm not sure that I fully understood your question, but one way to quickly find stable conformations for the DFT inputs for your ionic liquids is to first optimize your initial guesses using a simple force field, like MMFF94 (Using the Avogadro software for instance), then make small changes to the structure and calculate the energies, in a attempt to find the one with the smallest energy. Once you have 2 or 3 plausible structures with low energies, you can use a semi-empirical method (Like PM3 available in most computational chemistry software) to refine their structures even further. Now, with this final optimized structure you can perform the DFT optimization.
The actual process of performing these calculations is a bit more complicated, but feel free to contact me if you want any help.
If you have calculated anion and cation individually, you can put them in a mixture job and use the extended options to let complexes be created connected at the most probable contact based on a COSMO-RS calculation.