We are trying to extract DNA from sponge tissue but we would like to avoid as much as possible extracting bacterial DNA. So we are looking for a mild lysis buffer.
Bacterial cells have wall, so are more resiliant to lysis. You can try to use a soft lysis method, like use NP40 as a detergent, Tris, NaCl and EDTA. Then separate RNA/DNA and proteins.
From which kind of sample are you starting your DNA extraction? If fresh or well preserved (RNA later) you could try centrifugation-based protocols that separate the nuclei from other cytoplasmic organelles, and, in your case, bacteria.
For instance, check the paper in this link, using plants.
Thanks Thiago. We have tried something similar (from frozen material) but we still get some bacteria and we were wondering if we could somehow avoid extracting their DNA.