Hi Mehdi,

I am not sure if you need specific guidelines using specific FEM software package or not. But if yes, there are some books By Ever J. Barbero for  composite materials modelling using Abaqus and Ansys. Here are some examples:

1- Finite Element Analysis of Composite Materials using Abaqus

2- Finite Element Analysis of Composite Materials Using ANSYS®, Second Edition

3- Finite Element Analysis of Composite Materials

I hope this helps. 

https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-1-4020-8584-0_9

Dear mehdi

the attached file can be useful.

it is related to adhesive joints but this thesis has good guidelines to model progressive failure in composites.

Thanks to all