If I understand correctly your question, you want to know why after oxidation of some elements, melting/boiling points of the corresponding oxides are higher or lower than the initial elements, right ? It is due to the molecular or covalent character of the resultant oxide: low melting/boiling points for covalent oxides (ex CO2 is a gas, WO3 is a volatile oxide, Mn2O7 is a liquid, etc), but high melting/boiling points for ionic oxides (ex Na2O melts at a much higher temperature than Na, same for MnO, etc.). High oxidation states lead to more covalent oxide, low oxidation states lead to more ionic oxides.