I'm sorry you're having difficulty learning about female sexual response. However, this is not the correct venue for finding that information. Go to Google Scholar and you will find a lot of information that may be helpful to you.

Thanks Sarah for commenting. I am asking women to be explicit about how they personally achieve orgasm. We all know that men need penile stimulation and erotic turn-ons such as a potential partner's sexual anatomy and anticipating opportunities for penetrative sex. I am asking women and their partners to provide the same basic information about how female orgasm is achieved. Sexologists promote speculative theories in support of the erotic fiction that is so popular with the general public. I am searching for more scientific evidence of female sexual response. If every woman has orgasms with a lover, then at least a few of them should be willing to be explicit. Even if women are too embarrassed, their lovers would know. I have found very few people who can accept the reality of female sexual response, which contradicts the fiction. Hence why the research has been ignored.

This has been extensively addressed. Again, you're looking in the wrong place. Your experience does not match mine, so consider doing some objective research. The reason people aren't responding to you is that the question doesn't make sense to them.

Thanks Sarah for commenting. My question is: Why do women rarely comment on sexual response (arousal and orgasm)? Typically only men comment on issues such as this. If women comment it is always non-explicit. Your avoidance of the question does not convince me that you have any answers. No research has been done to ask women about orgasm since Kinsey and Hite decades ago. They both concluded that orgasm makes no difference to women's sexual amenability. Women who don't orgasm with a lover are just as amenable to having intercourse and say their enjoy it just as much as women who claim to experience these orgasms men expect women to have. Erotic fiction dominates sexology and no one is interested in discussing the reality of women's sexual experiences. I provide explanations for women who know that orgasm does not occur with a lover. Other women are mistaken - they feel obliged to concur with the male opinion. Women need to start being honest so that younger women can benefit from their experience. Men are much more explicit in their female orgasm stories than women ever are. Women talk of sensual pleasure and emotional connection.