Men will do anything for sex, and will behave quite out of character to achieve it, such as spending several hours being romantic, and paying attention to what a woman says. (Anthony Mason)
I am asking people to suggest the answer to the question. I am pointing out that there are many questions that go unanswered when it comes to sex. The silence out there is deafening. Yet everyone thinks they know everything there is to know. If you don't know the answer, I would have thought you might be interested to understand the answer. Men have a strong sex drive especially when young. Women don't have this biological urge so they find it difficult to accept but it explains why men approach women and generally initiate the dating and mating processes. Men are highly motivated to seek women out and keep them happy until men get what they want or are reassured that a woman will offer regular intercourse in exchange for the loving relationship most women seek. Please see my work on sexuality via nosper.com. If you are interested - most women have zero interest in understanding sexuality. Hence all the ignorance.