I'm currently referring myself to Estimators for Long Range Dependence: An Empirical Study. (http://arxiv.org/pdf/0901.0762.pdf)
I'm also using the R fArma package ( https://cran.r-project.org/web/packages/fArma/fArma.pdf ) which implements a couple of these Estimatiors, along with fracdiff package, which also implements two more Estimators.