The first two reactions are very fast acid-base equilibria. The kinetics depends on how do you mix the reagents.I have never heard about the third reaction. A mixing of NaH2PO4 and Na2HPO4 is a standard preparation of phosphate buffer solutions.
You have to analyse the partial reactions reduced to the elementary steps (keyword: reaction rate for every reactant, Sum of the exponents = order).
You will find the steps for the first one by searching the solubility of CO2 and the dissociation of the H3PO4.
The last one will not take place in solution. I guess you mean in solid state (meta- to ortho-phosporic acid). Nevertheless the presented reaction is not an elementary step of the first condensation