Static gravity, i.e. the Schwarzschild metric, depends mostly on the vacuum field equation: Ricci tensor = 0. Using notation from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deriving_the_Schwarzschild_solution we get one thing from symmetry and the definition of metrics, a form in which there are two relevant coefficients, A(r) and B(r) (the time and space coefficients, roughly speaking).
From the Ricci tensor = 0 constraint, which has been given only vague physical interpretations, we get two things:
As a friend showed a few months back, this leads to gravity which for a distant observer with a tether amounts to an inverse square force law, oddly enough. But potential, obviously, is not Newtonian for any observer.
Suppose we want one of the two variations of potential to be the time dilation factor. These are both approximately equal to the Schwarzschild factor for large r. They are 1/(1-GM/rc2) and (1+GM/rc2). Take the second one. It implies, according to another question I posed https://www.researchgate.net/post/What_differential_equation_has_a_solution_of_the_form_Fx1_1_Kx-2 , that the differential equation in step 2 above must be something like rA'=2A(1-A).
That factor of 2 when backed through to the Ricci tensor means that it cannot be quite zero for small radii. At that point I get lost trying to draw more definite conclusions. For example, if we have a different equation:
Ricci tensor = X
Then what is X (probably a complicated function) such that we still have A=1/B, but we get rA'=2A(1-A). It is a matter for someone who knows all the little summations and conventions by heart and is good at fudging. Any takers?