No beating, this is difficult for me to imagine. In the same time they never exagerated disobeying, I never insist too much, some times they even manage to persuade me with their points of view.
it is not advisable to punish your child by beating him or her; instead use the principle of reward and punishment.I mean you should give your kids rewards for being good or stop giving them something that they really like if they behave badly.
The strategy advocating the traditional statement , "spare the rod, spoil the child" for rearing up children has long proved to be ineffective. In point of fact, the prophet of Islam (P.B.U.H.) has told us about the first seven years of childhood whereby children should be treated as kings with full respect and consideration because they are in their formative years. Children are very sensitive and have a very delicate nature, and I think ,there are many other ways rather than beating that parents may use to show them correct ways of life.
An advice is an advice, nothing more, it s no command. If you give your very old father (who need your help) an advice: Would you beat him if he don't follow? The question has nothing to do with the problem that not following an instruction could have undesired factual consequences. It has to with human dignity. No man, no women, no child should be beaten by others.
In my opinion, we should not beat children. The children will imitate our behavior. If you beat him, he tend to beat other children and tend to use violence to solve problems in life. The more we love children, the more they love people and friendly with their friends. However, do not indulge children. We make them feel not easy to reach something, but children should be patient and make a lot of effort.
In my career as a father, I have seen that REASONING with children and giving them the freedom to operate after fine tutoring is far better and assist in their positive moral development than beating.
The relationship between father and children, not governed by victory or loss, should know why they do not listen to us and address the cause, and then begin to guide them and teach them to listen, for every problem there is a solution.
Do not beat the children. They need discipline but not with beating. If harmless and does not include beating, reward and punishment is necessary to improve children's commitment to parental advice.