NEVER: it is a type of harassment or "micro-harassment" or it is based on pathological zealoty ... someone who loves another person, GIVES HIMSELF AND GIVES HIMSELF AND SELFLY, LOVE IS NEVER POSSESSION.

I totally agree with Francisco Javier Gala. True love never is possesive. It is all the contrary: it is the "agapé" from the ancien philosophers. It is very well explained by Pope Benedect XVI (Joseph Ratzinger) in the Encyclical "Deus Caritas est" (it is a philosophical reflection, not a theological one). You can find the text here: http://www.vatican.va/content/benedict-xvi/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_ben-xvi_enc_20051225_deus-caritas-est.html

Yes it is better in many cases. Nevertheless everything has both positive and negative aspect.

Thanks you, Dra. Monserrat Gas-Aixendri.

No need to possess somebody, she or he is not your phone or book or your name. This notion of possessiveness should be discouraged it hurts both parties.