I think there is a small misunderstanding with the nanoparticle concept here (Please apologize if I am mistaken). They are solids, which in principle can be dispersed as a colloid in a solvent, be it organic or inorganic. They will indeed react with strong acids or bases, but you end up losing the parent SnO2 nature.
try dilute sulfuric acid and small quantity of Cresolsulphonic acid to dissolve SnO2. Because Cresolsulphonic acid would be minimize the further oxidation of Sn(II).