With DFT (wb97xd/6-31+G(d,p)) using Gaussian I am having great difficulty optimising a pair of reactants in complex i.e., my organic (which is part of a glycated side chain of a protein) with an hydronium ion (H3O+). It always optimises to the product of the reaction I am about to model (using TS searches).
I am using a spin of 1 and charge of 1. I have also tried by defining individual atom groups (the compound and the hydronium ion as two separate groups) and using counterpoise. No change.
I have attached a pre-optimised (before) and an optimised (after). The images do not show a complete molecule, I deleted parts to make it easier to see the non-bonded interaction between a hydronium ion hydrogen with the carbonyl oxygen. Unfortunately, as I watch the optimisation steps, the hydrogen detaches from the hydronium ion and attaches to the carbonyl oxygen, changing it into a hydroxyl group (and subsequently produces the next step in my reaction, which is a nucelophilic attack on the nitrogen).
I've attached a before and after.