Hi I need to get the similarity between groups of married couples in term of big five personality (extraversion, agreeableness, conscientiousness, neuroticism and openness) so that i can run pearson correlation of that similarity with the overall result i get from dyadic adjustment scale (DAS). I have computed the sum of each of the big 5 dimensions for both side of each couple pair n the total sum of each pair for the DAS. But i am at lost on how to measure the similarity of each of the personality similarity. Please help!