That’s one of the correct equations. That one is for convective heat transfer on the outside surfaces. The value of h will depend on the geometry.
Assuming your components are insulated then Ts should be the temperature of the outside of the insulation. You also need the conductive heat transfer through the insulation. That will be something like this:
Q = k A (T_water - Ts)/t, where t is the thickness of the insulation and k is the thermal conductivity of the insulation.
You will have to iterate the value of Ts for each component until you find the right value to make Q_conduction = Q_convection for that component.
For the front surface of your solar absorber, there will not be any insulation, so for that, use Ts = T_water.