How can we, the autistic population, be protected against the unfair moralisms used against us? My answer: Wider society, being less disabled, must recognize that autistics(including me) often act in ways we cannot control. We struggle with social cues. And sometimes we cannot help that we are sensitive on the receiving end yet socially inept on the giving end of social interactions, thus making us hypocrites beyond our own control. Plus our impaired judgment causes us to act in ways that get us yelled at yet, we have hearing sensitivity, thus we are in a constant quagmire so, we need inclusion and a safety net.