I believe dihexadecyl phosphate is a phospholipid that is capable of forming liposomes that could mimic biomembrane. The compound should be soluble in chloroform. If not addition of methanol in 1:1 to chloroform should improve their solubility. Also make sure there is no moisture in your reaction condition, which will turn the solution milky. Use anhydrous solvents.
You can dissolve Dihexadecyl phosphate (Synonym: Dicetyl phosphate; Linear Formula: C32H67O4P) in volatile organic solvents such as chloroform, methanol, acetone, ... or a combination thereof.
However, these are toxic solvents and practically difficult to be removed from the product (in your case: liposomes).
Try preparing liposomes / nanoliposomes without using toxic solvents using a simple procedure such as 'Mozafari Method' as explained in the below and attached literature.
Trends in Food Science & Technology
Volume 79, September 2018, Pages 106-115 S. Khorasani; M. Danaei; M.R. Mozafari
https://doi.org/10.1016/j.tifs.2018.07.009
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I used chloroform to aliquot the Dicetyl phosphate for further preparations. I am using a microfluidic approach. However, this morning I was reading about your proposed method. That gave me a couple of ideas.