Dear Thomas, yes, we can test the truth by life experiences.

Women think that they have orgasms with a loving partner due to emotional connection. But men should know from their own experience that orgasm is the result of mental arousal, which occurs as a response to erotic stimuli. Sexual response, arousal and orgasm, depend on EROTIC stimuli and not EMOTIONAL stimuli. Women mistake emotional and sensual pleasure with a lover for orgasm. Clearly they have never had an orgasm by masturbating where no relationship is involved. Orgasm is not just a matter of physical stimulation. Something must be happening in the brain - sexual excitement - before physical stimulation is effective.