Get the smallest scale available from your supplier. Even the smallest scale should be enough for more than 10000 reactions. I would not go for purification which may need a higher scale of synthesis as production is so good these days that desalted is almost always good enough for sequencing
20nM is plenty. I think the recommended for a single read sequence is 4.2pM so 20nM should give you about 5000 sequencing reactions and they are very cheap if you eventually do need more than this in a few years time