Sexual frustration comes from (1) having an erection over an extended period (2) being aroused regularly by the presence of a potential attractive partner & (3) from a strong psychological urge to penetrate a person with an erect penis. None of these apply to women. Women talk of sexual desire, which is connected to their emotional responses and their sense of obligation to please a lover. No one can have a drive to be penetrated by a penis or other object.