If no one, neither women nor their lovers, can explain how women achieve mental arousal as a response to eroticism, then how on earth are they ever having orgasms with a lover?
It's all about behaviours Stanley not responsiveness which evolves over millions of years. If you can find even one woman who is willing to talk about sexual response explicitly, please ask her to contact me. In over 10 years of asking women about orgasm, I have found only a handful willing to comment intelligently. Most of them are just boasting about orgasm to gratify their ego or make money from men. Even therapists and sexologists refuse to comment. We need to remember that human beings are not always honest especially when there are significant inducements to fabricate and embellish.