Our society censors all sexual content. We have no authoritative account of our sexuality or of sexual response. So adults base their beliefs on erotic fiction, which is aimed at providing turn-ons that assist with arousal. Women’s sexuality is portrayed in a way that is appealing to men. Given this portrayal makes women attractive to men, women rarely complain that it is totally unrealistic. Women’s lack of confidence in their much less exciting experiences of sex in real life make it difficult to ever present the reality of women’s natural lack of responsiveness with a lover.