Cohen's kappa is used to measure association of dependent variables as in a square table. The student's t is not a measure of association but used to test the difference of two variables.
The practical difference between Cohen's d and t is that for a given difference in means and pooled variance, t will vary with different sample sizes, but Cohen's d will not.
Cohen's d is the difference in means relative to the pooled variance, regardless of sample size, and so is an effect size.
The following is a table of results from t-tests and Cohen's d, for two samples (mean = 0, sd = 1; and mean = - 0.5 and sd =1) for a range of sample sizes. You can see that t and p change with sample size, while Cohen's d does not. R code below.