Regarding very important issues, yes it is necessary and advisable to talk to someone, before you take decisions! Many a times, we finally listen to our own mind, but it helps to listen to the wise, before doing that!
Ultimately, in the instant you make up your mind, you'll always be alone and it's better, because it will be a victory of yours and in case it's a failure, nobody will know about it. That's why preparation to that instant is so important and it goes through recollecting a lot of data (not a lot of advices), even if from your opponent's (the best weapons).
I always take help from advice of a very old person. I consider him the most knowledgeable humen being to advice us to understand critical situation and to understand other people.
He is CHANAKYA.
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Taking advice from experienced person and performing discussion with the criticizer developed in SELF should be a pre requisite for taking any serious decision.
Decisions taken only with emotions are generally proved wrong at the long run.
(It is a verse of Bharavi, a great Sanskrit poet).
Of course, as you get to know someone better you refine your first impressions. It stands to reason that extra information can help you make well-informed, rational decisions.
Decision is very important for the life of every human beings & it calls for careful action & if we know any person or friends who are sharing our views , in a action & in for discussion with him may rove to be for taking our decision
Since there are not two similar situations, when two people face similar problems, they may not make identical decisions, but it is useful to know the decisions others have made on similar issues.
The decision-making process emerges from information collection, analysis and processing in a scientific way, which leads to identify possible to resolve the alternatives, and to take one of the alternatives often requires taking human sense in the accounts when examining the priority of the consequences of the alternative that results, Decision-resolution successful depends sound judgment also depends on reliable information.
Think the best way to make a decision is by knowing what your goals are. When you are more aware of what you want from your life, you may be able to make better choices.
Especially in our applications times, it is really important to know how to make up our mind by our own and schools should specially enhance this aspect of learning. But they don't. People that don't know how to make up their minds would be called slaves. Slaves are easy to manipulate.
There are hundreds of decisions we make every day, and we don't think about every decision. Even the big decisions we think make sense, research shows that most of our decisions - big or small - are made unconsciously and involve feelings.