Thirteen days from today, I will be defending my PhD. It’s been quite a journey, which I will say more about, eventually. For the time being, I am taking a moment to gather all my strength, energy, and motivation to be ready for this day.
It is important because so much of my life has been dedicated to my research on child maltreatment, trauma and PTSD, depression, resilience, autobiographical narratives and storytelling. Yes, I would like to “pass” this oral exam, but am also looking for ways to enjoy this milestone and not be completely wrecked by stress.
So, I am reaching out for help, since this is something that I struggled with but finally learned to do over the last few years. The Internet is full of tips and tricks but I am looking for advice from friends and people I know, because it’s always nicer and warmer and just more real.
Any tips regarding how to be ready for this, how to deal being a new mom and having this ahead, how to present, what to do, things to avoid, ways to deal with stress or tricky questions (“This is a very interesting question!” has become too cliché), basically, anything that you would like to share is welcome, below or in a private message.
I am also sharing a link to some of my research work below, in case anyone is interested in reading it (and of course, feedback is always welcome): https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Mariam-Fishere