Comsol is relatively popular for these sorts of complex models, and it has a plasma and fluid dynamics module. However, it is expensive (>£2000 I think) and in some respects, quite limited in its functionality.
I think your model will be very complex. Will you be including electrohydrodynamic effects from the plasma? Is your model for chemical reactions, or flow stabilisation?
I believe that the leadings groups for plasma modelling are that of Annemie Bogaerts (Antwerp - Plasmant) and Mark Kushner (Michigan). Perhaps try reading some of their publications for some insight?
Don't expect to find a "out of the box" software for your problem if you are doing research (and not just technical applications). With a problem as complex as you mention (DBD, chemistry, turbulent flow) probably the solution lies on a mix of codes that you should adapt to the problem. In low-temperature plasma simulation groups that have developed software are Mark Kushner, the Plasimo group, The Lisbon group also has a multi-physics code "Spark" (contact through [email protected]) focus on plasma modelling. For the flow part and multi-physics problems look for Elmerfem from the Finish CFC. You will also need an electron Boltzmann equation solver.
Multi-physics codes can be adapted to this sort of problem. However, for a simpler (older look at the problem), look at "Experimental and CFD Studies of Non-Thermal Plasmas for NOx Control," Nusca et al 1998. Itn is attached here. However, the author Miziolek has retired and I don't know about the rest,