In fact, even women who did orgasm during intercourse most frequently gave affection and closeness as their basic reason for liking intercourse, rarely mentioning orgasm. (Shere Hite)
I am pointing out the contradiction. Men always stimulate the penis. But during so-called lovemaking, men stimulate the breasts, the clitoral glans & the vagina of a female partner in the hope of arousing her. But orgasm depends on stimulating the sex organ (the phallus) from beginning to end and certainly up until orgasm. The fact that women wait for a man to stimulate them is evidence of their lack of arousal. Also the fact that women do not specify the anatomy that should be stimulated is evidence that women are not aroused with a lover.